tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3259100264329775943.post742256866938402364..comments2023-05-09T02:00:41.963-07:00Comments on The Crazy Mormon: Tough Questions, No Easy AnswersAlexhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/13589508168777037793noreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3259100264329775943.post-65221738887954425662011-03-08T03:56:34.778-08:002011-03-08T03:56:34.778-08:00This comment has been removed by the author.Alexhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13589508168777037793noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3259100264329775943.post-31213623411912561042011-03-06T16:22:30.038-08:002011-03-06T16:22:30.038-08:00Alex, It's been interesting to see some of the...Alex, It's been interesting to see some of the comments on your blog regarding your current situation. All are so sincere in wanting to help ease your burden somehow. Although we all share a commonality, we are also so very different. For some the challenge of living in a "mixed orientation" marriage is a real struggle that they can't come to grips with, and I can't judge them because I am not them and their wife is not mine. For others, like me, although not always easy, imagining a life without my wife and family would be much harder and less fulfilling. <br /><br />Listen to all of us, and glean what you can, but ultimately, listen to the spirit and do what is best for you.Bravonehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02762204502534599107noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3259100264329775943.post-28751329495417401942011-03-03T03:44:10.955-08:002011-03-03T03:44:10.955-08:00Thanks all.Thanks all.Alexhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13589508168777037793noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3259100264329775943.post-69464762341199734822011-03-02T17:31:18.549-08:002011-03-02T17:31:18.549-08:00I agree with Invictus. Hang in there. This group...I agree with Invictus. Hang in there. This group can be a big support. We are here to help.mohoguyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14546776654420263679noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3259100264329775943.post-31388183346075246142011-03-02T09:00:15.913-08:002011-03-02T09:00:15.913-08:00Alex, I well know how scary all of this is. After ...Alex, I well know how scary all of this is. After reading your post, I have several thoughts/questions for you to consider: First, I hope you are continuing to see a counselor. Second, you need to try to take care of yourself physically/emotionally. <br /><br />Third, my sense is that you each may need to give yourselves a little more time to "digest" what is going on. I'm thinking particularly of your wife: I can't help but wonder whether she understands the significance of the changes that have occurred in you and what these mean for you - and for her. <br /><br />As to people asking you what you want, well, I might suggest that this is not a fair question for you at this point in time. You have just recently allowed yourself to feel a lot of things and to accept some things about yourself. I would suggest that you probably need more time to sort all of this out and determine what it means for *you* before you try to determine what it means for your marriage, let alone being forced into a "choice." <br /><br />Again, my sense is that this needs more time to ripen. As we've discussed, however, these are just my thoughts which may or may not be useful or applicable.Invictus Pilgrimhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15961213460164925021noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3259100264329775943.post-8442423173613274302011-03-02T08:26:42.911-08:002011-03-02T08:26:42.911-08:00Take care, buddy.Take care, buddy.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com